To change location, put stock.mdb where you want it, then , Start > Run
"c:\program files\stock\stock.exe" /configdb:yes
The MS JET driver needs MS networking open (ie, either the dangerous 138/138, or the marginally safer 445), and this would not be recommended. VPN would be the better option, though performance may be an issue.
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